Fun in Dating: Discover Great Expectations that Will Endure
Now, You couldn’t describe me as pleasantly comfortable being bored with most men (who isn’t?) and be 100% truthful. But, I’m not unhappy about it, either. I only mention it on the blogosphere as an intriguing personal tidbit setting up the story I am about to unravel!
This time last week I met for coffee with Trisha, considering buying a membership to a dating service for Phoenix singles. Today, I write to the blogosphere as a happy member of the singles network. Seriously, I am. I like it! If you know me at all, you’re probably thinking, “You totally owe me an explanation.”
Well, I noticed this dating site called Great Expectations and liked what I saw. They’re for the serious singles who think dating doesn’t have to be so frivolous and stupid.
Quite frankly, I’d never been interested in the ridiculous nightlife ritual a lot of singles have named “Dating.” I heard it more than anyone should. Each night they nagg, “Are you seeing somebody?” and “Oh I know just the guy for you!”
“Nonsense,” I reply, and playfully so. “There’s nothing to date!”
“You’re as ridiculous as you are hilarious,” they deadpan. “How would you know, you haven’t seen Friday Night Magic in a year!”
Leave it to my friend (she’s the best) 
Stacey Feldman. She offers reality directly to my core to set me straight. People are always there . Can’t argue with that, and I joined.
Returning to the point of this blog entry. As I selected from thousands of outfits (hah) and desirable, honest singles for my first singles event with Great Expectations, I realized something honest. For the longest time, I hadn’t had any emotional great expectations for dating and myself in the adventurous winding course of this world. Single life has its perks, even more so if you take the opportunity to meet new people. Having great expectations makes a difference on a cynics social life.
<3, Christy Rodriguez
